The
relationship dynamics will vary between the first wave Indigo Child,
and that of their latter-born brethren. Since most the Indigo Children
will incarnate into situations that stimulate the need to break
down the old-energy patterns they were born into, this will manifest
into many disruptive patterns, as problems in school, 'structured'
environments, and routines.
While
the Indigo Child may merely resent being bored, unstimulated, and
unchallenged, there are those Indigo Children who will abhor the
mere fact that some human dares to assume a position of "authority"
or demand respect, when they are not filling their end of the 'contract'.
This
will manifest highly against teachers or authority
figures whom the Indigo Child considers Inept, incompetent, unworthy
of the position they hold, and ESPECIALLY
in situations where the Indigo Child feels an individual is misusing
or abusing the 'authority' they have, and/or not fulfilling their
job descriptions or roles, particularly when it comes to enforcing
rules fairly and protecting innocent or weaker individuals.
While
this holds most significance to the first wave Indigo Child, there
are those who proceed them, that will find these traits describe
them as well.
You
must remember, all Indigo Children have a strict moral code of whats
'right' and 'wrong', and most Indigo Children will have a high level
of karmic residue which exacerbates their agitation and inability
to tolerate 'idiots', 'wrongdoers', and those who refuse to uphold
the system they have been entrusted to maintain. This has significant
ties to the destruction of previous human colonies, including that
of Atlantis (Directly as a result of humans corruption of power
and greed), which most of you are aware of, and also other colonies
which you are not. This isnt the first time humans have existed.
But this is they first time, for this planet, that a generation
of children will come, and leave the planet in a better state than
which they found it.
Latter
generation Indigo Children, having had the way somewhat 'paved'
by the preceding Indigo Children, will have a somewhat easier road
to toll. While they will always know they dont 'fit in' and have
problems in dealing with rigid structured routine and the archaic
scholastic model, they may perhaps be able to function within its
model, although they will grow very resentful and find such routines
boring.
Family
members will often struggle to understand what is going on in the
mind of this child. While they will admire the ferocity to which
the Indigo Child clings to and defends their values, they will be
left puzzled as to why the Indigo Child cant just 'let it go', 'fit
in', or has to take on the world, seemingly making things so much
harder on themselves.
Indigo
Children will despise violence and chaotic routine, but because
of their innate purpose and hardwiring, they will be continually
thrust into situations that are indeed volatile, chaotic, and conflictuous.
As the Indigo Child matures and comes into their natural state of
balance and harmony with their own energy, and masters the art of
energetic shielding and grounding, they will find their lives much
more peaceful and calmer, promoting happiness.
I
have seen and read others statements, indicating that Indigo children
are more likely to be only children, and this is not true. It has
been said that Indigo Children will bond with the parent of the
opposite sex, more so than the other parent. Again, this is not
true. The Indigo child will bond with whatever parent (or
whatever human being, for that matter), treats them with respect
and gives them the space to achieve their own individuality, without
attempting to force the child into routines that they simply arent
built for.
...You
can not squish a square peg, through a round hole.
...Does
this mean that you shouldnt discipline your child, or that your
Indigo Child should simply roam free without any rules? Of course
not! What this means, is that you have to approach your child with
respect (the same respect that every living thing is entitled to
receive), and understand how to communicate with your child.
Communication,
is the key. Simply threatening, withholding 'privileges',
grounding, yelling, spanking, and whatnot will not only get you
nowhere, but will prove to be utterly fruitless and counterproductive,
as you engage your Indigo Child into a battle of will and wits,
in which dear human, you will find yourself outdone.
...You
have tried these things, have they worked? Of course not! Or you
wouldnt be here, now. Everything in your life that you have tried,
has led you to this point that you find yourself now reading these
words, and you have been led here for a reason. I applaud you, for
your hard work and attempting to learn and understand how to work
with your Indigo Child, and I thank you for taking the time to put
into learning how to do so. And know, whether they able to express
is now, or not, your Indigo Child thanks you, too.
Dear
one, you can not attempt to enforce 'force' on your Indigo Child.
Communicate. An Indigo Child is born with the need to understand
things, how they work, why they are so, and why they are, simply
the way they are. The Indigo Child will not be able to process issues
as they arise, or accept things, under they can wrap their mind
around them and digest them. Once they understand, they will be
much more able to function in accord with finding a mode of relief
to rectify the issue.
You
will get nowhere, by threatening your Indigo Child, guilting your
Indigo Child, or using the great old standby "Wait until your
Mother/Father gets home!" The Indigo Child fears nothing, has
done nothing wrong, and is simply trying to understand exactly what
the issue is. Until that point is reached, expect no resolution.
And
Teachers...Principals of the world.. My, what a challenge lays before
you. Quite unlike anything you ever thought you would see. Thankfully,
many of you are becoming more progressive and are giving children
the respect and interaction they so desperately have needed. ...I
could write an entire book on my experiences within the educational
system, and while I have much to say on the matter, I will simply
end these words with a hope and a prayer, that you are able to open
up your minds and embrace us. Embrace all children, for an Indigo
Child is no more or less important than any other child. We are
here, and it is your responsibility to protect, inform, inspire,
and enlighten us.
Where
to begin...It seems there will be many differences between the relationships
of an Indigo Child with another Indigo Child, and that of an Indigo
Child with a partner who is not an Indigo Child.
Many
karmic-based issues are likely to create opportunities for the emotions
to be released, and until the emotions are released they will be
problematic and the 'same' old problems will follow the Indigo Child
from relationship to relationship, and the Indigo Child will be
puzzled because they do not understand why they are being plagued
by these difficulties, and why people continually do the things
they do. (All things that occur in life that trigger negative emotion,
only happen to stimulate and bring up the feeling, so that it may
be 'cleared' and released. This is true not only for all Indigo
Children, but can be applied to all humans existing on the planet).
It
has been written that Indigos will not wish to conform to the ideals
of matrimony and childbearing and will wander throughout life alone.
However, this is not the case. The Indigo Child will has an inborn
sense of love, harmony, unity that they can not help but to crave
such a situation for their 'relationship'. While the roles of a
so called "traditional" household have been thrown out
the door, there is a much more powerful bond that these two will
share together.
Indigo
Children (especially the first and second generation Indigos) have
a desperate need to be understood, needed, and loved. They feel
very alone, and if such an opportunity should occur as to give the
Indigo Child a a chance to develop and explore the depths of such
love, the sky is the limit!
The
one thing to be aware of considering a relationship between two
Indigo Children, is as they draw lifes odd circumstances the rate
of occurrence will be increased, as they both manifest situations
that would be challenging to many, but the obvious advantage is
that each will no longer be alone.
The
Indigo Child is plagued by feelings of being misunderstood and of
loneliness, even when in crowds of people. While some may isolate
out of their own free will, there will always be a heartfelt need
to find another like them, or find someone who can understand them...
If at the least, someone who will accept them, despite not being
able to understand.
Indigo
Children are capable of amazing acts and abilities of love. Throughout
the cycles of relationships an Indigo Child will go through, the
most painful fact and point of perplexity, will be why no one loves
the Indigo Child, the way the Indigo Child loves them. Indigo Children
love unconditionally, and absolutely. The biggest source of pain
for an Indigo Child (Which leads to many of the Indigo Children
suicides), is not having that love returned.
Indigo
Children accept all things, and are very nonjudgmental of superficial
fixations, though this may seem contraindicated as the Indigo Child
is also very sensitive and abhorrent of the critical faults of humanity
(such as weakness and self-imposed stupidity), regarding which they
will generally be very outspoken.
